Who is Guni? | Empowered Hearts

Hi, my name is Guni and my purpose is:

TO Open my heart and deeply connect with others

to become aware of and accept their power within,

SO THAT They are moved to grow

and decide to create the fulfilling life they wish!

My inherited pattern.

Growing up as the third girl of four, I felt there was not much attention on me. I felt wrong, difficult and misunderstood.

I was always trying to find proof of my value and in doing so, I was very attentive to any signs of not being valuable. I felt disconnected.

By the time I was a teenager I had build up the strong belief, that If I could keep people around me happy, only then would I feel good enough and worthy of love. This led me to attract an unhealthy relationship confirming me in this belief. I married a man with addiction to alcohol believing that if only I loved him enough, he would be able to let go of the alcohol.

This of course did not happen. I felt worthless, insecure and lost. It was as if I was drowning in an ocean of pain, disappointment and frustration, never being able to control his drinking pattern and the effects it had on our family.

New awareness and decisions

Finally, with some help I became aware of the self-destructive patterns we were holding each other in.

Realising that I was NOT a victim of his behaviour, and that I COULD CHOOSE how to react to any situation in my life, I felt empowered enough to decide to create a good life for myself and my two children. And wow did that feel amazing!!

With this new awareness, I started to work on consciously changing my old emotional patterns and throughout the divorce I had plenty of opportunity to practise this new approach.

Owning my “stuff” and becoming self-responsible by understanding where it came from made it possible for me to turn my life around, and never again feel like a victim.

Being self-empowered

Today I live my life feeling deeply connected to others, to myself and to the present moment.

I am full of self-worth; I know my values and I stand strong.

Having freed myself from the burden of holding others responsible for my happiness, or me of theirs, I can now meet people with compassion and understanding.

I know anything is possible and that I have the strength and courage to speak my truth.

The wisdom that all these life experiences has brought me is now the strong foundation on which my business is build. I am full of gratitude and understanding of how the difficult times in my life have moulded me into becoming the emotional intelligent, powerful and self-expressed woman I am today.

Cilck here now - and start taking back your power!

OWNING WHO I AM

These are the SKILLS I have grown from my life experiences.

Creativity
Emotional Intelligence
Understanding
Self-responsibility
Independence
Respect
Adaptability
Problem-solving
Resourcefulness
Resilience
Determination
Courage
Kindness
Patience
Being practical
Logic
Travel
Imagination
Humility
Music
Wisdom
Order
Structure
Commitment

These are my top 10 VALUES which are essencial for me to honour in my life and to practise in order to feel fulfilled.

CONNECTION

COMPASSION

UNDERSTANDING

PURPOSE

SECURITY

TRUST

SELF-EXPRESSED

SELF-RESPONSIBLE
SELF-WORTH

EMOTIONAL AND PHYSICAL AFFECTION

Guni Blohm